What To Do If Your Newborn Won’t Sleep Or Nap During The Day

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Sleep aids are commonly used by babies and infants to help them to settle and sleep with ease. But trying to establish a sleep routine that will last for years to come can prove tricky when it comes to weaning your little one off of a sleep prop. From whether sleep aids work to ways to phase them out, find out everything you need to know below. 
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30 May, 2023

Reasons why your newborn is not sleeping or napping during the day

There could be a few different reasons your baby sleeps well at night but not for naps, and thankfully it’s probably not because they’re a natural-born party animal. Some of the most common reasons are:

Overtired 

Once your baby becomes overtired, it’s much harder to get to sleep. In an overtired state, your little one can produce cortisol and stress hormones, making the task of falling asleep a lot harder. Watch for your baby’s sleepy cues, so you can try to put them down for a nap before they reach the point of being overtired. 

Overstimulated

Babies are sensitive to light and sound. If you’ve taken your baby to a loud, busy place or they’re being passed around the lunch table by a legion of adoring fans, they may become overstimulated and unable to fall asleep right away come nap time. Consider some down time before a nap, and give your little one the opportunity to fall asleep somewhere calm and quiet when their awake time is coming to an end. 

Hunger 

It’s a good idea to schedule a feed just before nap time, to give your baby the opportunity to fill up their tiny tummy. There are some recommendations not to feed your baby to sleep to avoid developing hard-to-break sleep associations but sometimes, you just need to do what works to get the sleep happening!  

Discomfort 

If your baby is wet, too warm, or too cold, they may not be able to settle for sleep. Always check that baby has a fresh nappy before their nap, and that they're dressed in breathable, temperature-appropriate fabrics. A Swaddle Up™ in the right TOG for your room temperature can help keep them comfortable without overheating.

Number of Naps 

Getting the balance of naps right can be tricky. Too few and your baby is overtired. Too many and they may not have built up enough sleep pressure to settle well. Following age-appropriate wake windows and watching your baby's individual cues can help you find the sweet spot

    Change of settling technique 

    If you're in the process of changing how your baby falls asleep say, moving from being rocked or fed to sleep to settling in their cot, it may take a period of adjustment. This is normal. Your baby is learning a new skill, and like all new skills, it takes a bit of practice. 

    FAQ’s about babies not napping during the day

    What if my baby doesn’t sleep during the day?
    Persist. Follow your lines of enquiry and investigate/change the conditions until you stumble on a combination that works, or a clue as to what the issue might be. It may be that your baby is having trouble settling, is overtired or uncomfortable. If you’ve tried everything you can, ask for help. Contact your GP, paediatrician or get in touch with one of the trusted services in your area.
    Why is my baby fighting naps?
    Your baby is unlikely to resist their naps because they don’t want one. It is more likely that they are having issues with settling for sleep, they are uncomfortable or potentially unwell. If you feel your baby may be unwell, contact your GP or paediatrician.
    Why is my newborn not sleeping after feeding?
    There may be many reasons your newborn is not sleeping after feeding. They may be uncomfortable, have gas or an intolerance. Begin by gently ensuring your baby has had the opportunity to get rid of gas in their tummy after feeding, or consult your GP or paediatrician if you notice your baby is showing signs they are in discomfort after each feed. 
    Should you swaddle a newborn for daytime naps?
    Swaddling your baby for each nap and bedtime routine not only provides them with a feeling of security and comfort, it is a signal to your baby that it’s time for sleeping. Swaddles not only provide comfort, but help prevent baby’s sudden reflexes from waking them up during 
    How do I get my baby to nap without being held?
    If your baby is used to going to sleep in your warm embrace, who would blame them? It may take a few days for them to get used to a new way of doing things. To begin this transition, ensure you swaddle your baby for comfort. If they’re not going to have your arms to make them feel secure, the swaddle will provide a feeling of safety. You may then give your baby a cuddle until they’re in a sleepy state, and then put them gently down into their cot or bassinet. It may take some time before your baby adjusts, you can help them by making this a consistent naptime routine and using other settling methods such as shushing or white noise to help them off to sleep.
    At what age do babies stop napping?
    At around the 2.5 to 3-year mark, your baby will likely show signs they are ready to drop their daytime nap. You will start to notice more resistance to the daytime nap and perhaps your toddler will be more wakeful at bedtime. 

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